Off my chest typa post.
Yours is, I think, the only account I check in on by name on this platform. I’ll sometimes be like “what’s that wild girlie cookin’ today”!
So, like, don’t keep posting just for me if it’s not fun anymore, but block the haters and keep cruisin’!
How old are you, violet? Because all this time I’ve been treating you like a teen, I never expected you to be 17 even. Are you like in your 20s or 30s? 👀🤔
In a 60 year old male professor and I find your shit hilarious. I get too involved in politics and science stuff. I find the horny posting a refreshing break.
Sorry you’re getting some hate. If it helps, it’s because most of us like you. Tall poppy syndrome and all that. If you need a break, please take it for your mental health but I hope you stick around.
You past funny content…primarily to a shit post community. It doesn’t matter if its all real or not, it’s content.
You are young compared to the majority of people here, which seems to be about 30. The Brad post, and the one where you mentioned being very exposed to some of your parents activities, set off some alarm bells in people’s head. The activities you describe, like rushing into relationship and sleeping around - while all your personal choices, and not our business - some people just want to make sure you’re okay. That comment you shared, to me that seems like a worried person that instead of constructive dialogue, decided to phrase it as a smear campaign against you - or they hate your content and they have nothing better to do.
I hope you’re not attracting creepy DMs, but if you do please report them and if it’s bad enough maybe publicly share them so we all know who to block.
Most importantly, keep having fun. Your posts are enjoyable. We’re all adults, we can enjoy a horny joke/story without crossing a line.
What you do in your personal life is up to you, just be safe and if you need advice on anything important, this ain’t the place to get it.
you post you get updoots. we aint got enough ppl posting here 🤷
I don’t like post? I scroll by.
Keep doing what you’re doing, sister.
I don’t know, is it really a solo trip if you’re with 2 other people? Something isn’t adding up here. What does solo even mean when there are 2 others hanging around?
And if I already have this many questions, then who knows? Why can’t those two guys be your parents? Maybe you aren’t on a solo trip at all, you’re on a trip with two other guys.
i talked about this before on here. i consider it a solo trip cause i can go and do wherever & whatever i want whenever i want, i don’t even have to interact with the 2 guys if i dont want to. they were sent among by my parents cause i got anxious about being completely on my own & it’s my first ever experience like this, so they thought it’d be better to have someone watch over me.
I’m only going to scroll so far through your post history and I didn’t see your explanation, so sorry for making you repeat yourself. That said, I think solo is the wrong word for it if they’re explicitly there so you aren’t alone. Just say you’re on a trip, there’s no shame in that.
You can emphasize that you’re on your first trip without your parents, that’s still a pretty big step towards independence, but I’m going to fixate a little too hard on it being a solo trip you’re taking with friends.
thing is, they’re not my “friends”. their task is to be more of my “shadow”. the fact that i willingly deviated from that for my own pleasure is another thing entirely, lol.
but yeah this is splitting hairs atp
They hate you coz they ain’t you. Keep posting.
There’s something about Violet’s posting that absolutely infuriates people, and I absolutely love it.
Lemmy is a male-dominated platform with a misogyny problem. My posting style subverts their narrow archetypes of women (the Madonna-whore complex), which tends to trigger defensive or negative reactions.
What is the Madonna whore complex?
a specific internal conflict some men experience where they view women as belonging to one of two mutually exclusive categories: the “saintly” Madonna or the “debased” whore.
my posting style makes these men think that I’m obviously trying to scam/catfish/sell something (whore) because obviously a woman who isn’t wouldn’t be on here posting stuff like that in the first place (Madonna).
i also find it quite funny cause if you’ve seen my posts and comments you can deduce that money is not something i lack… i do love attention and being an entertaining court jester but i do it purely for the love of the game, lol. also a slut purely for the love of the game.
Now I’m going through my knowledge of Madonna songs…
Of course there’s Like a Virgin, but then you also get more meaningful ones like Oh Father https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvVvN0QvzTk
Madonna can be complex.
Drowned World/Substitute for Love - Ray of Light - Nothing Really Matters - Frozen - The Power of Good-Bye is a crazy run of songs on the same album.
I find your posting quite entertaining, keep up the good work! I’m a fan, truly.
The entire platform is nonstop triggered and posts negative reactions on any number of topics. Such is the nature of online communities and anonymity.
I love it
I’m a woman, I’ve noticed that while Lemmy is better than some spaces it’s very male centric in very stereotypical ways, I love your stuff I think it’s great for exactly the reason it triggers them - the point isn’t that men are getting triggered, the point is that my perspective is being validated too!
Keep it up
Can we not put her on a pedestal and make her a representation of all women here?
I’ve been reading through their content and I can sort of see why people don’t like them.
I know there’s a lot of misogyny on the platform, it’s everywhere and escaping it is impossible, but I don’t necessarily think it’s the case for them? They just mostly seem disingenuous and posting for attention. People naturally tend to not like that.
Nope I’m putting them on a pedestal. Get wrecked
Can we not put her on a pedestal and make her a representation of all women here?
Who is doing this?
I get what you’re saying, but if it’s just that I think most people would just downvote or block them.
It looks like some people still feel the need to interact with OP, but seem to be capable of doing so only in very negative or aggressive ways.
Not excusing the behavior because it’s not right, but I think it could be a major problem stemming from this platform and how it’s organized. This place seems to be too small for that to be effective. The majority of the people on this site might not want to see something, but if a small group does then their activity is enough to push it to the front page anyway.
It’s kinda telling that the women on Lemmy who’ve interacted with my content like it, but the men are always the ones having an issue with it, lol.
& tyyyy🫶🫶🫶
I’m a guy and I love your content… Although I’m queer.
cishet guy here. I find your posts amusing, I’m sorry other men can’t be more chill.
The 08 at the end of their name is the number of accounts we’ve had to block so far
Off you fuck then.
Are we really doing middle school reddit type drama here? C’mon now
My dude, we are all each other’s people. Sometimes we need to vent, but we are going to need to vent to each other. Please bear with it
What’s “middle school reddit type drama” about venting?
Yeah! She’s 17… that makes it high school reddit type drama…
In her previous account she claimed to be “18F 😎”
That’s a direct quote.
Yeah. Your whole post is.
I fail to see how my post could be considered ragebait from any perspective. I posted a personal annoyance to the mildlyinfuriating community, which is the entire point of the community. On the other hand, your comment is textbook ragebait: making a joke based on a lie specifically designed to annoy someone.
My comment was funny. There’s nothing mild about your fury. You came here to fight.
You’re funny like “hmmm”, not funny like “haha”
Sooo funny. And especially so… original. 🙄
