• Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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      32 minutes ago

      Everybody is different. Some want to be bullied, some want to be hurt, some want to worship, some want to brat and be made to behave…

      A large part of the fun is figuring out where your kinks overlap and how you can please each other.

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        4 hours ago

        I’ll pull your hair just right little one. What I whisper in your ear while doing it is going to be a lot different if you’re cis or trans though!

        • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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          4 hours ago

          🙃🙃🙃❤️

          Cis or trans is real fuckin messy and complicated lol, but cis is probably more accurate. I’m amab and generally masc aligned. Everything beyond that is complicated 😅

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              3 hours ago

              Unfortunately forced fem is kind of a hard limit for me 😅 I had a long period of being more femme and am working to intentionally reclaim masculinity, at least for the parts that do connect with me. I’m still on estrogen by choice, have boobs, and sit down to pee out of preference, so what masculinity means to me is obviously a bit different than most masc aligned people. Sometimes I kinda struggle with feeling like I’ll only be received positively and appreciated in femininity.

              But I appreciate the energy and flirting regardless! ☺️❤️

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                2 hours ago

                Valid and heard 🫡 consent is super important

                so what do you like to have whispered into your ear as you’re being lightly abused by a lesbian mommy-domme little one?

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                  42 minutes ago

                  Uhhh

                  That I’m pleasing. That I’m wanted. And things that make clear they can see through my reflexive masking of social vulnerability, like hiding when I enjoy something 🥹

                  If someone can see that I’m wet, or see how I’m avoiding eye contact, or see that I’m squirming and I’m not able to hide how I’m reflexively reacting to them, them pointing it out and clearly enjoying that they can see through me and find my vulnerability gratifying turns my brain into mush…

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    10 hours ago

    Can confirm. So many good girls who have never had a firm hand with proper validation & guidance and they are soooo cute. 😍

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        Submissives like to give control to Doms. A good Dom recognizes the psychological aspect to the power exchange