• alapakala@quokk.au
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      3 hours ago

      Never.
      That shaming culture is alive and well in 21c, and Monogamous domineers exist, still.

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        2 hours ago

        Also, I’m not the one down voting your responses. I’m not trying to be overly critical, I think you have a unique perspective and I’m just trying to comprehend fully what you are trying to say.

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            51 minutes ago

            I think that’s a bit patronizing, total sexual inclusivity is not a very large focus of anarchist literature as a whole.

            In fact, Murray Bookchin is one of my favorite political writers.

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              41 minutes ago

              Then keep on reading more anarchist writings on what it means to have total sexual autonomy, and total relationship agencies.

              Unlike statists, I don’t use cops to maintain my autonomies and agency.

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        2 hours ago

        I don’t think anyone was trying to claim shaming culture wasn’t still around. I’m not sure what all entails to your use of the term monogamous domineers.

        Is the wife domineering over the husband by divorcing him? Wouldn’t that just allow him to be sexually liberated to sleep with whom he wants?

        What is the alternative in this scenario? For the man to continue being sexually liberal and force his wife to either adopt his views or be in a relationship structure she does not consent too?

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          1 hour ago

          The wives, 3+, are using this spectacle to shame the dishonest man. How do you not see shaming culture is dominating both, the relationship, the public, and the legal system?

          What is the alternative in this scenario?

          I gave 4 examples already, on how to liberally praxis liberal sexual autonomy, and still deal with a dishonest individual. I am not sure how I can make it more boomer literate for you. May I also suggest you research modern day sexual liberation research on your own?

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            45 minutes ago

            wives, 3+, are using this spectacle to shame the dishonest man. How do you not see shaming culture is dominating both, the relationship, the public, and the legal system?

            Again, I never made the argument that shame culture wasn’t widely prevalent, influential, or good.

            I gave 4 examples already, on how to liberally praxis liberal sexual autonomy, and still deal with a dishonest individual. I am not sure how I can make it more boomer literate for you. May I also suggest you research modern day sexual liberation research on your own?

            This comment was made before you specified your criticism was about the concept and not aimed solely a particular individual in this example.

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              38 minutes ago

              Then keep on educating yourself on dominant state monogamist enforcement oppressions, and leave my sexually liberated polycule alone. Mcpisce?