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    The vagueness of “compare” is the problem here.

    If your job is to grade oranges for sale, and an apple hits your line, it will fail completely.

    If your job is to grade apple cider for sale, and someone hands you a cup of orange juice, even the best orange juice ever created, you can’t give it marks for how good it is as apple cider.

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    Anything can be compared to anything. It’s trivial to find some axis they share.

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      3 hours ago

      Nerds talk about both, but as far as most people are concerned they’re just imaginary concepts?

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    Velociraptors and rabbits are both land dwelling creatures, that existed on the planet earth, and both featured in the game Amju pet zoo. Why can’t we compare them?!?

    Pretty much everything we have knowledge of is linked in some way, the question of the comparison depends on the properties we wish to compare.

    “Apples to oranges” is saying “these are two different things, and your comparison is shit”.

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    THANK YOU!! When that analogy was taught to us, we found it profoundly stupid, both are categorized as fruits, both can used to make juices, both grow on trees, both are yummy, what isn’t there to be able to compare?!

    We’re wonder what the fuck was going in inside their head while making that analogy.

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    19 hours ago

    The most reasonable interpretation is that you cannot use the standards of apples on oranges, nor the other way around.

    You wouldn’t fault an apple because it doesn’t have a thick skin that needs peeling.

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      14 hours ago

      That doesn’t make sense??

      You can still peel an apple and an orange. Even that’s still a comparison

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        All the people trying to explain it to us isn’t helping at all. This is a stupid saying and we’re not missing out in it’s meaning. Gonna go back to doing our own thing 👋

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        The point of the saying is that you shouldn’t fault a thing for not being like another different thing. It’s not that you can’t do it. But you wouldn’t evaluate the quality of an orange on the same parameters you would an apple.

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        8 hours ago

        “This orange sucks. I can’t just bite into it and enjoy it like an apple.” That’s not a sensible assessment of the orange. That’s applying the desired attributes of an apple to an orange.

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          Ok but thats still a comparison??? Yes they’re different fruits and served differently, however fundamentally those are still comparisons in itself.

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            Are you confusing “can’t” and “can, but is fruitless” (pun intended)?

            Like, if someone says to you “you can’t put nails in with a screwdriver”, are you going to say “You totally can. Just whack the nail with the handle. I don’t see the problem”.

            Or, like, “You can’t eat crayons” do you respond “sure you can. chew it up and eat it. i don’t see the problem. it’s just like a cookie”

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        Yes, but you are comparing a serving choice to a serving requirement. It hardly seems like a fair comparison.

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          “With this fruit this step is mandatory and with the other it’s optional” seems like a perfectly fair comparison. If you’re going around finding fault with the fruit because of that comparison, that’s a completely separate step that is on you.

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              So you’re telling me neurotypical/non-autistic people are incapable of making comparisons without attaching a judgment value to them?

              Like, if you had two daughters who took the same math test, you would be unable to compare how they did without finding fault with the one that “did worse”? You would actually end up loving that one less unless you could convince yourself of an excuse that makes the comparison “apples to oranges”?

              Wow that must suck.

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                How would I know what neurotypical people do? You can hardly compare me to a neurotypical person, that’s like… The phrase escapes me.

                I am going to tear apart the insinuation that “it has faults” mean “I love it less.” My favourite D&D movie is the second one, which most people are unaware even exists. I can enjoy a flawed movie while recognising its flaws. Why would my love for my children be dependant on a maths test?

                Also, “did worse” is objective when it comes to maths tests. You get graded, and the answers are absolute.

                Think of this. One daughter gets A grades in english, but C grades in maths. The other daughter, it’s inverted. Which daughter is smarter? You can’t… Actually, you SHOULDN’T compare them. Morally.

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    Fun fact: the German equivalent is with apples and pears which makes even less sense

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    21 hours ago

    Spotting differences is also a form of comparison, so the phrase makes no sense at all

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    Still better than the Portuguese equivalent: “what does the arse[hole] have to do with the pants?” (o que o cu tem a ver com as calças?)

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    Apples make jam, oranges make marmalade. Only apple juice turns tasty when fermenting it.

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            Come autumn I can buy a 20lb bag of winesap apples for like 15 (probably 20 this year) and then I get to can SO MUCH apple butter! It’s a delight! Homemade is great.

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              I’ve never had homemade! There is an apple festival near me every year, and I grab what I can there, though. Every year I think to myself that “this is the year I will pick some apples and I will make stuff out of them for cheap!”, but laziness always wins lol.

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                It’s easy to make in the slow cooker! Apples, both sugar, some spices, let them cook until the dice apples feel hollow, puree them, let cook even longer til desired consistency!

                Makes the house smell amazing!

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                  Yeah, I’ve looked up a few recipes like this, but getting a large jar for $10 from somewhere local tends to win. I will do it one day, I promise…

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      Apple jam exists, but mostly apples make applesauce or apple butter or apple jelly. Or apple pie.

      Orange pulp and pith turn bitter when cooked, which is why marmalade uses only the juice and a thin layer of the zest, which is boiled and drained to remove bitterness before cooking with the juice.

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        Depends on who’s making it. The pith may add some bitterness but it also allows you to make it without adding pectin because it is naturally present.

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          Yes I understand that to be true. I tried with some of my extra lemons and somehow managed to get the bitterness without the gelling effect, but that doesn’t mean I don’t believe it works if properly done.