• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            3 hours ago

            butbutbut they also have to like me back which is a problem…

            and also how do i know they like me? like - what if they r just writing like this to everyone? what if - what if they just talk like this to everyone…

            what if what if what if they only said a thing to be nice - (i mean okay some of that stuff was like - very umm… out there but still!!! maybe i just looked so insanely friend-less that like - thats a thing which kicked in… okay no im not doing that poorly on friends but- okay no i am - but they dont know---- so like - u see?)

            this is hard… u never know.

            • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              28 minutes ago

              Well usually if people like spending time with you or like being around you that’s a good sign.

              It’s ok to tell someone you’re attracted to them, flirt with them, or ask them out! You aren’t being creepy until they say no. Once they say no, if you still keep pursuing them, that would be bad, but just asking is fine.