All good, no worries.

I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought “dude” or “guy” might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol.

https://youtu.be/iH3K2rkkU7g

I will cease calling you buddy. What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

Would? Buddy, I already have.

Valid

Context:

(Some) people on the ace spectrum like chastity because they like kink but not actual sex and having their bits locked up & off the table makes them feel safe & secure

(Some) trans people like chastity because bottom dysphoria