Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn’t have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman…no I wouldn’t, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man…fuck yes I’m sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.

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      Good, I’m happy for you!
      Also please don’t call me buddy.

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          My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol

          LOL
          Not bad 😂

          What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

          Either Miisha or girl, girlie, sis or whatever else you’d call a fellow trans woman is fine. Thanks ♥️

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            I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought “dude” or “guy” might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

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              It is gender-neutral…I’m just way too oversensitive lol. I apologize. And…thanks! 🩷

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              I’ve know that some people consider “dude” genderneutral, but this is the first I’ve heard this about “buddy”…

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                To me buddy and dude are gender neutral. Dude’s been like that since at least the mid-90’s. Bro is pretty much there too nowadays, especially with American younger Gen-Z. Ultimately it is up to the recipient. If they say, don’t call me X, I don’t use X. No debate.