Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn’t have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman…no I wouldn’t, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man…fuck yes I’m sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.
You’ve got such nice toys! That red one with the knot, I definitely want one like that eventually. If you’re up for something different and intense I can’t recommend enough a steel toy. Easily my collection’s fave at the moment. (for butt play of course, not for sucking~)
Toys are a godsend for self discovery and for fun with far away friends. A tool of emancipation if you ask me.
I really understand the shame from being sexually playful. I used to foster a lot of self loathing towards it. Nowadays I prefer to consider myself a threat to the heteronormative sexual order >:3