I’m sorry… I think it’s me who triggered this by worrying about her so much (I won’t why but it’s not life-threatening) I messaged her on Lemmy (she’s not online on Matrix), making her open a chat which we last used…

CW: self-harm

…when she had suicidal thoughts and as the police suggested I pretended to want to come so I could make them do a wellness check… ultimately did make her less willing to die but not nice of me

At least nobody (not even the police, who didn’t ask for her username) but me (who she accidentally sent her name to) knows her real name in connection with the Lemmy and Matrix accounts, so she technically wasn’t doxxed; the police didn’t tell me the address they found in their database of course.

By the way, the police here is generally nice, if incompetent at times, and would use Miisha’s legal (female) name. It’s not like I sent a SWAT team.

Edit: Miisha insists this was not why she deleted her account. It’s clear she was already in distress so I’d say I wasn’t the only factor but given the timing, it was probably the last straw

So yeah, @Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone saw a sad chat, didn’t want to see it ever again and went the way of @AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone :(

  • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    17·
    14 hours ago

    Hey fuck off.

    My pretentious support of women’s rights while spewing blatant misogyny, erasing the experiences of non-trans gender-nonconforming people, spreading right-wing propaganda, absolutely annoying people who just want clean and readable feeds, basically forcing my obnoxious personality into every nook and cranny of this place.

    That’s not what Miisha was doing.

    • McUberStein@lemmy.zipEnglish
      10·
      14 hours ago

      I will. Sorry Velma. You were honestly great and super kind to me. Sorry for ruining it like I always do…

      If it wasn’t clear, this is me. This is my old account. Sorry for being me

      • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        21·
        14 hours ago

        If it wasn’t clear, this is me. This is my old account. Sorry for being me

        Oh babes! Goodness gracious, no, don’t be sorry.

        You didn’t ruin anything. I wish you’d stick around.

      • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        13·
        14 hours ago

        Wait, wait, wait…maybe I misunderstood your comment. It read like you were making fun of Miisha there. What’s up with this?

          • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            21·
            14 hours ago

            Her self-deprecating talk really had me thinking it was someone actually making fun of and being relieved she was gone.

            I saw the correction from her, but thank you so much for letting me know.