hmmm I mean yeaaaaaa butbutbut… idunno… if they want punishment… hmm… okay actually, no, u kinda… hmm… u made me think about this in a different way. one where its not them literally wanting to be annoying but one where they do it because they want those over-reactions, which yea makes sense.
so… I think I prefer the very soft kind of “gimme this plz” exchange instead of… well, me having to guess what they actually want. obviously one figures that out over time but hmm especially at the beginning just telling one another what one likes feels like a wonderful way to do this, cuz that can be dressed up really nicely and be a nice warm intimate moment.
That’s all allowed. I’ll also say, you’re totally allowed to not be into kink or some aspect of kink and to choose not to do it. Explicit communication vanilla sex where both parties act as equals remains the default and totally ok. You can take stuff outside it in a pick and choose way as you want it
hmmm I mean yeaaaaaa butbutbut… idunno… if they want punishment… hmm… okay actually, no, u kinda… hmm… u made me think about this in a different way. one where its not them literally wanting to be annoying but one where they do it because they want those over-reactions, which yea makes sense.
so… I think I prefer the very soft kind of “gimme this plz” exchange instead of… well, me having to guess what they actually want. obviously one figures that out over time but hmm especially at the beginning just telling one another what one likes feels like a wonderful way to do this, cuz that can be dressed up really nicely and be a nice warm intimate moment.
hmm or not. who knows
That’s all allowed. I’ll also say, you’re totally allowed to not be into kink or some aspect of kink and to choose not to do it. Explicit communication vanilla sex where both parties act as equals remains the default and totally ok. You can take stuff outside it in a pick and choose way as you want it