Honestly, right is goals (duh)
Not happening with this body tho 🥲

  • Jankatarch@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    I know that beauty standards for women are unhealthy and unrealistic.

    I know that if I saw a trans girl with body on left, I would accept her as a girl, because she’s a girl.

    I know that even cis women don’t have the body on right without special genes.

    I still feel like I don’t pass for not having the body on right sometimes.

    Is this what they call cognitive dissonance?

    • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Absolutely, in my mind everyone is valid no matter what. Their bodies don’t change that in the slightest.

      I know that even cis women don’t have the body on right without special genes.

      I know…still, the envy is real. I know I might have had at least a chance at a decent waist, had I been born cis, but with me being trans and going through T puberty…just no sadly 😔

      I still feel like I don’t pass for not having the body on right sometimes

      I’ve never seen you. However, there’s a MASSIVE gap between the body on the right (conventionally very attractive) and passing as a woman (people being unable to tell you’re trans in everyday life).
      And just for the record, I bet you do pass, silly 🩷