I won’t joke about this one. It just felt emotionally deep and beautiful, so I’m sharing it.
Oh dear, it was literally the worst moment for me to see this. But I’m still looking at it and crying, crying a lot.
Your all valid!
Unless you want to die. That’s never valid
😭
People don’t become ghosts when they die or any of this kind of spiritual shit. People when they die become only the memories you have of them and you realize how little those memories actually matter.
Not the time
Wdym not the time?
I mean read the room? This meme isn’t the place for you to be condescending toward people grieving
I’m not being condescending that’s really what it’s like. It’s never like they’re beside you again.
I get that you might have your own pain and your own unique experience, but you’re telling other people that their experience, beliefs, and grieving process is invalid
Edit: and that’s not a nice thing to do
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Well this is…a surprisingly even more depressing comment on an already depressing post. I get that you’re right, but this somehow stirs even greater sadness within me. It makes me think of what I’m gonna do, when my beloved boyfriend is gone…and that honestly hurts my heart
So…thanks, I guess. You made me even sadder than I already was todayThat is my usual affect on people around me. DW too much, though, it’s not that bad, but it does look like slowly losing the emotional intensity of your memories of someone until remembering doesn’t send you into a crisis anymore.
Required listening for this post.
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