This is sooooo me and my bf, omfg 😭
Three times a day, every single day, I ask him this question. And he always replies in the same manner. I wuv him 🩷

  • pmk@piefed.ca
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    7 hours ago

    I’m 7 years into a relationship like this. I love her, but it’s breaking us apart. If you love your SO, please don’t neglect your mental health. What is reassuring and cute to you can become a taxing chore with time until one person is more like a caretaker than a lover.

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      3 hours ago

      I know he’s acting like a caretaker for me. I know I’m just being a burden to him. I’m just pulling him down with me…
      Don’t worry. I’m aware how pathetic I am. I really am…but I don’t think I’ll get much better. It’s my fault that I started this relationship, I’m only hurting him and making more work for him in the end 🥲

    • mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de
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      6 hours ago

      New question: “would you love me even if I kept asking if you love me to point that you become more like a caretaker than a lover?”