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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 day ago

neurodivergence rule

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neurodivergence rule

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 day ago
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    Autism

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      How come?

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        A common quirk of autism is putting pressure on the fronts of your feet (though rarely as high as this) while walking.

        I do it a bit, but the only sign that I am is that my shoes wear down on the front faster than other people, while the heel generally stays intact.

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          I really need Lemmy to stop pointing out things I didn’t notice I have been doing forever and then telling me it’s an autism thing.

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            Do you eat food… Cause its a known fact that 100 % of autistic people eat food!

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              Depends. How are you eating? Are you meticulously separating your food and eating it in a particular order? Do you break apart your tator tots into tiny bits, or do you pull the chocolate chips out of your muffins to eat them separately? Maybe you eat all the green veggie straws, then all the yellows, then all the orange ones, never deviating from that pattern?

              It’s fascinating looking around the lunch room in a school for autistic children.

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              I know some who forget to do that

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                Eat? Autism.

                Forget to eat? Also autism.

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                  No forgetting to eat is ADHD

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                    There’s been information coming out that indicates having autism is quite common among ADHD people, and is significantly under-diagnosed, especially for people who got their ADHD diagnosis a long time ago.

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                    There are autists who don’t feel hunger

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                  No no, nonononono… They meant “eat autism”. Like, the slang.

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                Hey! :(

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                I think it is more common among autists

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                Is that some you? Have you eaten since then?

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            I think people like to take any symptom related to autism and just claim that anything similar is also a symptom. Like, “autistic people do X a lot so if you ever did X you’re probably autistic”. Not how it works.

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            every once in a while I finally see a post that I don’t relate to, and I cling to those hard

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          that explains why I keep getting wear on the fronts of my shoes holy shit

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          Man, even that was a sign!? Is everything I’ve ever done just textbook autism?

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            If you’re as old as me the only thing books ever mentioned on [behavior now correlated with autism] is that some kids do it but they’ll “grow out of it.”

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              I “grew out of it” when I got too fat to stay on the balls of my feet all the time. However I still do every so often; and when I sit, I often tuck my feet under the chair so that I’m resting on them… so maybe not entirely grown out of it…

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            Not necessarily a sign; just a common quirk to have with the condition.

            Not all toe-walking is related to autism: it can also be musculoskeletal or related to other psychological conditions; and at the same time, not all autistic people walk like this.

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          And why is that?

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            There can be a few reasons. Sensory, coordination, neurological… Usually it simply feels more natural.

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              …pretending to have digitigrade legs…

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                  to walk like animals who walk on their toes

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                    I do not believe that is as relevant as you think it is.

                    There is a certain overlap between autistic people and furries/therians, but that is very much not usually the reason for this behaviour.

                    EDIT: usually

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              I don’t walk like this, but it is more natural. We would walk like that barefoot. Heel first is a shoe thing

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                Heel first walking is entirely normal on most flat-ish surfaces.

                Heel first running quickly becomes painful on anything but soft grass, if you don’t have modern shoes.

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                  Heel first running

                  Yes, I confused it with something I saw about running

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                That is simply not correct. The development happened when humanity started walking upright. It had nothing to do with shoes. So it is not more natural.

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                  You are right. I was also talking about which part of the foot hits the ground first

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                    I understood what you meant, I’m just saying heel first is not a shoe thing. It’s a walking upright thing.

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              Never thought about that thanks for educagting :3

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              Furry

              TIL 196 hates furries

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                Oh wow, and?

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                  Tf you mean and?

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                    Usually when someone says “furry” without context is pointing out the other user is a furry, happens too often

              • Don't forget to stay hydrated.🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉@sh.itjust.works
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                I think the person just listed another reason, walking somewhat like a digitigrade creature.
                (I see their comment just got downvoted so far.)

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                  Oh, makes sense, thanks

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                  Thank you.

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                !196@pawb.social

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          My shoes get worn down similarly because I have high arches and long ass toes, “tingers”. The middle arch never touches the ground.

          Finding the right shoes suck ass. I’ll get holes in the top and bottom of the front unless I have proper arch support.

          Plus side I’m very silent when I walk because there is less contact. So I’ve spent a lifetime scaring the shit out of people on accident.

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            Depending on where you live, your insurance might cover (semi) orthopedic insoles.

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              I should check that out. Would be nice to wear some fun shoes. The arch support ones are always boring.

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            I have a habit of sneaking up on people like this, too; and yeah, not all toe-walking is related to autism, just as not all autistic people do this.

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            deleted by creator

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          Do you have a source/name for that? I would love to read up on this

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            Just “autistic toe walking”. I myself have no sources, sadly, but it’s widely reported and documented.

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              Thanks!!

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          non-ND people learn soon enough to not walk on their heels after living in a multi-storey house for a month. but sure, if you want to believe it’s unusual, i can’t stop you.

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