• heliotrope@slrpnk.net
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    1 day ago

    A common quirk of autism is putting pressure on the fronts of your feet (though rarely as high as this) while walking.

    I do it a bit, but the only sign that I am is that my shoes wear down on the front faster than other people, while the heel generally stays intact.

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      I do this but only when I’m wearing sandals or am barefoot, if I’m in my boots I walking notably more on my heel. Seriously I have to swap the padding on them every once in awhile because I bore a hole in the damned things. I think it’s a balance thing.

    • NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world
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      I really need Lemmy to stop pointing out things I didn’t notice I have been doing forever and then telling me it’s an autism thing.

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        I think people like to take any symptom related to autism and just claim that anything similar is also a symptom. Like, “autistic people do X a lot so if you ever did X you’re probably autistic”. Not how it works.

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        every once in a while I finally see a post that I don’t relate to, and I cling to those hard

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        If you’re as old as me the only thing books ever mentioned on [behavior now correlated with autism] is that some kids do it but they’ll “grow out of it.”

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          I “grew out of it” when I got too fat to stay on the balls of my feet all the time. However I still do every so often; and when I sit, I often tuck my feet under the chair so that I’m resting on them… so maybe not entirely grown out of it…

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            I do that, too, when I’m in a shared chair. I think it’s because my feet don’t reach the floor in chairs that aren’t adjusted for my height. Also, I’m autistic, hyper flexible, and have poor proprioception, so sitting on my legs gives me good feedback on where my limbs are.

            My office chair is a kneeling chair, and I tend to sit with my feet where the knees should go. (I swap into office slippers, so it’s not outside shoes on my chair.)

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        Not necessarily a sign; just a common quirk to have with the condition.

        Not all toe-walking is related to autism: it can also be musculoskeletal or related to other psychological conditions; and at the same time, not all autistic people walk like this.

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      My shoes get worn down similarly because I have high arches and long ass toes, “tingers”. The middle arch never touches the ground.

      Finding the right shoes suck ass. I’ll get holes in the top and bottom of the front unless I have proper arch support.

      Plus side I’m very silent when I walk because there is less contact. So I’ve spent a lifetime scaring the shit out of people on accident.

    • colin@lemmy.uninsane.org
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      non-ND people learn soon enough to not walk on their heels after living in a multi-storey house for a month. but sure, if you want to believe it’s unusual, i can’t stop you.