This is why I’m hesitant to go to gay bars. I don’t want to break too many hearts. In all seriousness most people that hit on me tend to be super chill about it which I appreciate.
I had this fear and honestly if straight guys were as respectful and understanding as gay guys straight guys would have way more sex.
Just don’t go there to get hit on, or to hit on women who think they’re in a safe space. Go there because you like the vibe and want to have fun. Try to make friends with the guys who hit on you and be a good sport.
ETA: Don’t go to a gay bar if you’re straight unless you’re invited.
Maybe controversial opinion, but I don’t think straight guys (or gals) really belong at gay bars.
There used to be a gay bar in my area. Eventually it was mostly straight women. And then it didn’t take long after that before it was mostly straight men. Now there are zero gay bars.
I agree. I don’t go to gay bars unless I’m invited by a gay person, and I’m aware that I’m a guest in that space because I’ve seen that happen to a few places.
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This is why I’m hesitant to go to gay bars. I don’t want to break too many hearts. In all seriousness most people that hit on me tend to be super chill about it which I appreciate.
I had this fear and honestly if straight guys were as respectful and understanding as gay guys straight guys would have way more sex.
Just don’t go there to get hit on, or to hit on women who think they’re in a safe space. Go there because you like the vibe and want to have fun. Try to make friends with the guys who hit on you and be a good sport.
ETA: Don’t go to a gay bar if you’re straight unless you’re invited.
Maybe controversial opinion, but I don’t think straight guys (or gals) really belong at gay bars.
There used to be a gay bar in my area. Eventually it was mostly straight women. And then it didn’t take long after that before it was mostly straight men. Now there are zero gay bars.
I agree. I don’t go to gay bars unless I’m invited by a gay person, and I’m aware that I’m a guest in that space because I’ve seen that happen to a few places.
That’s exactly what happened to one of the only gay dance clubs nearby. Now it’s kinda lame and definitely not gay anymore.