Results vary greatly. I know some women who enjoy it and things work well on a mechanical basis … for me, it was painful regardless of what went in how.
I did dilation regularly for a year, tried small flexible dildos, everything. Even a finger was painful.
So I gave up and let it atrophy. 15 years later and I can come just fine from external stimulation, and since I’m not into men I’ve never felt like it holds me back.
does it not get stimulating once healed? like masturbating with a dildo should also do the job at that point or not?
Results vary greatly. I know some women who enjoy it and things work well on a mechanical basis … for me, it was painful regardless of what went in how.
I did dilation regularly for a year, tried small flexible dildos, everything. Even a finger was painful.
So I gave up and let it atrophy. 15 years later and I can come just fine from external stimulation, and since I’m not into men I’ve never felt like it holds me back.
That’s one of these questions about bottom surgeries I always wondered about.
Wow, this whole topic opened my eyes and broke me a little bit. Of course dilating is a thing and I gather it’s slow and hard work…
What a journey! Mad respect for riding it through - you ladies are tough as fuck!
With mine I haven’t needed to dilate with any regularity in a few years (I’m six years out from surgery). The occasional dildo seems to work fine.