• grue@lemmy.world
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      1 hour ago

      “Lesbian” is a statement of identity, while “WLW” is merely a description of behavior.

      As I understand it, terms like “WLW” are preferred by sex researchers in order to keep the focus of the research on the behavior and try to prevent it from being used to categorize people too much.

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      4 hours ago

      wlw is a little more generic, like, a wlw could be lesbian, bisexual* or whatever while lesbian is only wlw

      *bisexual, as the name suggest is someone who see more than 1 gender attractive

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        3 hours ago

        The construction of the sentence is just getting to me: “wlw…with a gf.”

        It feels like the important part is “having a gf,” and “having the gf” implies the “wlw.” So you could have just left off the “wlw.”

        • grue@lemmy.world
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          “having the gf” implies the “wlw.”

          Only if you already knew (or assumed) that the person who posted it was female. I, for one, didn’t pay attention to the username or avatar pic, so for me, it was a helpful clarification.