• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 hours ago

      imean i knowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww…

      like - im not here cuz im like “um actually this hornypost should have been softer” but more like “i think that would have made peeps lookin at it happier” kinda thing…

      like- im-… i dont even want the spicy, i want the soft before, the asking, the genuine care, the… idunno im proooobably overromantisizing this but- u know?

      the - the part where the one gets the other to say a thing they might never have articulated, the light play in that, the - the way peeps handle things when they dunno if their partner/s should hear about a certain thing. the “strawberry cake or cheesecake?”, the" talk or shily be talked into", the looking and not knowing - THAT. yes, that.

      that is what im here for.

      • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        7 hours ago

        That is… Not the norm, i’m afraid.

        I get what you mean though. Don’t get me wrong, I also like the OP and stuff like it, but I can see the appeal of seeing the softer side, too. But I think you’ll find a lot of people enjoy a rougher/darker fantasy even if it wouldn’t be fun if it were real.