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RmDebArc_5@piefed.zip to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 19 hours ago

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    Why cant this happen to me?

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    This exact mood is why I’m such a bottom

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    idunno, this isnt quite what id do. this feels more like a hornypost rather than an actually fun time.

    where’s the excitement if they dont consent? what if i do a thing they really really dont like? what if some of it brings up some kinda trauma in them? what if they end up just… clearly not liking it.

    i would stop, untie them and let them go… no tea, no nothing cuz they probably wanna be as far away as possible from this crazy peep.

    this kind of a thing can be fun but… ohgosh ask them - ask them ask them ask them ask them. and also huggie them first so they know u dont mean it evily when u do evil things if u do evil things.

    i talk as if i have exp now.

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      I feel like the consent was implied to have been given some time during that jump cut from the streets to the sheets…

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      People into this stuff do expect consent. It’s a fantasy that wouldn’t work if it literally happened, but appeals to the submissive desire by virtue of it being divorced from unpleasant realities. Brats who want to be tamed usually indicate they want it before the dom would do anything.

      Also, happy 3 years on Blåhaj Zone!

      • maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        imean - i knowwwww that thisvisnt meant literally…

        but like - what im saying is kinda… i think it would feel even spicier if there were some consent talk even in the clip… cuz this way it feels too harsh and-… not cutie. how is a too ever gonna have fun if they arent sure their bottom feels safe?

        i would like - i would be just as scared as they are… ;(

        EDIT: yeye i knowwwww its a tiktok thing, its meant to be instant horny… sigh…

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    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

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      that all you got? :33

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          Can I join the order as a recruit instead? 🥺

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            Certainly! Here’s your rope and complimentary flogger. Practice starts an hour after dinner.

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      Well shit

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    owo

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    hey! i’m walking here! runs into you

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    Is file.garden down? I’m unable to connect.

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      It’s working for me. Do you need a reupload, or is checking the source okay with you?

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