Wait til someone tells you they find you they/them attractive, someone who isn’t attracted to your birth assignment. I swear this happened to me over just two months ago now and I still haven’t fully recovered. All I can think about now is how to get back to that place of peace and desire and validation.
I want everyone to feel that, it’s life-changing
Similar experience for my first time having they/them pronouns used IRL… I was mountain biking in full body armor, full face helmet, and goggles. Someone said to their kid, “let them go ahead, they’ll be really fast,” or something. I proceeded to hit 48km/h on singletrack, a speed I haven’t replicated since. So I guess I was given a speed boost by the comment?
You got the Celeste dash for a moment from being gendered correctly :)
I was called racist in Lidl earlier.
Rookie mistake, should have gone to Greggs.
Has anyone else never heard of “very vibe” before, or is it just me?
I’ve never seen someone write “very vibe” before but I understood it immediately
A trans woman I know was quietly thrilled when she was out with her girlfriend and some bogan pieces of shit drove by and yelled “Lezzies!” from their car
Obviously pissed off, but any silver lining…
Edited to trans woman from transwoman because terminology is different in different places, and lemmy is still basically 'Murican
Don’t punch an ally, people. If my original post made you think I’m one of the pricks, then you’re playing into the hands of those would divide us to destroy us
Thank you for the anecdote fisting enthusiast
Plot twist, they were the one yelling “Lezzies!”.
There’s actually a word for this: ewphoria (or ewwphoria)
Ewwphoria
Also, it’s trans woman, not transwoman.
Question if I may, what’s the difference, besides spacing?
I am wondering this too. I’d never type it as one word, but that’s just BC I think its grammatically incorrect.
@birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone and yourself, it’s about the difference between nouns vs adjectives. Grammatically, transwoman is a single noun, while trans woman is an adjective and a noun. You might not have noticed the distinction, but your brain did. Trans women are women because the noun is the same. Transwomen aren’t necessarily women, because the noun is different. Being a trans woman doesn’t mean you’re some other woman-like thing, it means you’re a woman who happens to be trans. The grammar is important because it shapes your perception in ways you might not even notice as it’s happening.
I’m an anarcho-antirealist, which means I’ll admit that our subjective consensus reality is constructed by the dominant culture. That’s a racist, sexist, queerphobic, capitalist, statist culture. And it denigrates trans people in invisible ways, turning public perception against us, through our very language. Language shapes subjective reality. In order to have a free and equal society, we need to take back control of the means of perception. We need to understand and master the way language shapes subjective reality, and take the magic for ourselves. Share the magic with our fellow workers, so we can build an unreality together. That’s a subjective world which doesn’t call itself objective, doesn’t call itself real. Instead, it welcomes change and reinterpretation to suit the needs of its people. We need to make perception a democracy, instead of the corporatocracy it is now.
Transwoman, like transatlantic means beyond the atlantic (ocean), means beyond woman.
Trans woman means “trans[gender], and also a woman”.
TIL! Thanks for the explanation
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listen i think solism is as dumb as the next person, but your rsponse was way too rude and will be remoed, this is a warning in the future you may be banned for such behaviour,

you could always just shut the fuck up
Take your own advice
I don’t value your opinion
I wanted to make sure you understand that











