Still better than whatever the hell 4tran is.

    • UnixSlvt42@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      1 day ago

      The vast majority of trans online spaces are dominated by cat/dog/whatever girls. It feels almost cult like. If you’re not into the whole pet play & “skirt go spinny” schtick it’s downright alienating. While it’s annoying to me as someone who’s butch, it’s very dysphoric for trans mascs.

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        14 hours ago

        The whole cat/dog girl thing is also just generally concerning and tends to create extremely unsafe spaces and has lots of unhealthy fetishism.

        Its just a general problem. It can be fine, but it just rarely is. It reminds me of early bdsm forums full of inexperienced people. Who haven’t learned proper etiquette or care yet.

      • AzuraTheSpellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        21 hours ago

        thank you for the explanation, I didn’t find it obvious by looking at the image&title alone. I love how you’re helping to increase the visibility of those parts of transfems, keep going!