• Draconic NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 hours ago

    Something that should be made very clear when talking about dead people who never found out, is that you can’t “find out” for them. Self-discovery is something that can only happen from the self. It can’t happen when someone dies. So if they didn’t before they died and they never told anyone, you can’t assume they did because you can’t actually know, and it’s equally likely you are misgendering them.

    CC: @SectoidLexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone