• BloodMuffin@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    I totally get it. when I get horny, I forget I’m straight and look for a dude to bang

    • DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      1 day ago

      Ok after rereading my comment i need to elaborate a bit because it sounds psychotic - I dont have a real gender preference i just call myself an ethical chaser because I think its funnier saying it that way because it also includes trans people

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          Might be but ive been told by trans people and saw post from other people calling anyone who likes trans people(no matter if they like cis people aswell) a chaser so i just started labeling myself as such

          • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.org
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            Ok, then lemme clear this up :3

            A chaser is someone who wants to have sex with a trans person, because the person is trans, regardless of their character, etc. Most chasers are only interested in trans people that haven’t had gender affirming surgery, so it’s double icky.

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              Oh so they just want to microdose being gay as a fetish!!! Ok thanks for explaining it to me because I have shitters as friends and they turn everything into a meme.

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                  It wouldn’t be but to some cis straight people it counts as being gay(Im comming with the mentality of a third world country so i genuinely might be wrong its just how i heard people here talk about it . Im from Kosovo)

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        I didn’t say anything about repulsion; but if you sometimes want sex, then how can you be ace? That’s frankly a genuine question because I thought that was literally what being ace was about.

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          Asexual = lack of sexual attraction, not desire/urges.

          Its like being hungry but without any specific cravings.

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      1 day ago

      True but i dont even know at this point. Ive lived thru my entire 29 years of having no romantic or sexual feelings towards any person or gender and then theres the last 2 months where ive just been horny on main every other week for no fuckass reason i dont know at this point.

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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        1 day ago

        tbh, simply discovering stuff about yourself/opening your mind to other possibilities can unlock a lot of hidden desire you didn’t know you had. Regardless of what flavor you are, you definitely come across as queer in some way

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          14 hours ago

          Yeah true and im open about it so im not shoving it down im just even more confused than i was before. Also im here on this website so ofc some fruit is flowing down my veins