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  • fastandcurious@lemmy.worldtoMildly Infuriating@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    8 months ago

    I agree you with all you said, what I meant by saying acceptance is that when you really love someone (in particular marry), you accept a persons character and the flaws that might exist in it, maybe an emotional thing like being short-tempered, or something physical, sure you grow together, that’s what a healthy relationship is, but I don’t think you can find a person who is perfect In literally every way possible and who always agrees with you 100% it sucks but it’s the truth, this of course shouldn’t take a form of domestic violence or toxicity or constant yelling, but I don’t think you can complain if it sometimes things get overly emotional

    And tbh I thinks it’s great that love is flawed, if it was perfect all the time, you might not be able to appreciate all the beautiful things and emotions that come with it, having a whole set of emotions with it kinda makes it more complete imho







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    Yes, but I just see people around looking for love that is all just cuddly with tons of hearts and compliments, and they get angry when there is some sort of disagreement, like what did you expect? Love is about finding and accepting a person who is perfect for you accepting them with both their strengths and weaknesses, not necessarily someone who is perfect in character, but everyone is just kinda ‘Oh she really respects me and trusts me with her whole heart but I wonder if she likes because I am dark skinned’