• ☂️-@lemmy.ml
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    1 day ago

    because these people are not just horny, they are also terminally and desperately lonely.

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      17 hours ago

      Im not. Dont think its a profession people should have.

      Guess i think human beings should not sell their bodies. Strange right?

      • bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de
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        17 hours ago

        Serious question: when you do manual labour, is that not selling your body? Anyways, how is it different from doing that in sex work?

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          16 hours ago

          Serious answer: Humans are not meant to sell their bodies. They are meant to do physical work, of course.

          If you cant see the difference, maybe a good example is if this was your daughter. Would you think selling her body is the same as working as a waitress? If yes, you are missing something inside.

          • unwarlikeExtortion@lemmy.ml
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            7 hours ago

            Equally serious (and just a bit more deranged of an answer):

            Humans are not meant to do work. Physical or otherwise. This slavery thing where everyone, regardless of race, gender, orientation (and almost even age) we have going on is just degrading and nonsensical.

            Humans should live in tightly-knit families and tribes. Of course, the woman should do the simpler housework like cleaning, cooking and tidying, while the father should do the more manual stuff like fixing things, growing plants, keeping animals and hunting.

            Women should likewise be seperated from books because they are more likely ro succumb to the words of the devil. I’m sorry, but that’s just how it is. Therefore men must educate their heirs (male, of course), while the wife should teach her daughters how to domthe chores.

            If you can’t see how exposing a frail woman to the harsh reality of being the man of the house, try thinking of your own daughter.

            • 1984@lemmy.today
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              5 hours ago

              Humans have worked since we appeared on the planet but yes, I agree that our current society is full of completely meaningless jobs and we are a debt slave planet.

              Your most interesting comment was about women and how they should be separated from books. I guess you have that view because of a religious background, or?

              I do believe we have a lot of words from the devil in our society today. Im not religious in that way, but I absolutely see how some people, maybe most, dont have basic morals and dont care how they treat other people online, where its easy to be your worst without consequences.

              There is a spiritual war ongoing right now in my opinion.

          • ☂️-@lemmy.ml
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            10 hours ago

            Humans are not meant to sell their bodies.

            they aren’t but they do anyway. if i had a daughter living well from sex work, i’d be happy for her over having a minimum wage job that doesn’t afford a decent life.

            i’m not morally opposed to sex work, much grosser jobs to have. like cop, or lawyer.

          • piguyisme@programming.dev
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            16 hours ago

            If you don’t like sex work then that’s totally fine, don’t do sex work, but there’s a large market for it and plenty of people willing to fulfil that demand. Even if you don’t like it, it’s important to destigmatize it to make the lives of sex workers safer through legal protection, health care, etc. As far as sex work goes, onlyfans can be much better than the traditional porn industry because channels can be run independently, which reduces the risk of exploitation and human trafficking.

            Sex work should be completely consentual and safe, and destigmatization and legal protections can help make that happen.

            • redparadise@lemmygrad.ml
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              15 hours ago

              If sex work is consensual, why does money have to be involved?

              Although I don’t really have a problem with temporarily increasing regulations on the already existing sex work markets, it is fundamentally coercive and should be phased out by providing welfare and rehabilitation for sex workers and eliminating the capitalist forces that drive people to it.

            • 1984@lemmy.today
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              15 hours ago

              Im surprised anyone can like it. Its obviously wrong, morally, spiritually, emotionally, as a human being.

              People are doing it anyway of course. Because a lot of people are broken in this world. And there is a market for it, of course. Its still wrong. We are not here to serve the market with our bodies. Lol.

              If you think its fine, you are missing something inside. It really is that simple. And then you rationalize it with lots of market arguments or protection arguments, because you dont mind people selling their bodies. Even try to make it seem like a normal profession for humans to do.

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                Its obviously wrong, morally, spiritually, emotionally, as a human being.

                Says who? Morals and the emotional reaction to this job are subjective, “as a human being” makes no sense at all, and fuck all the way off with your spirituality bullshit.

                People are doing it anyway of course. Because a lot of people are broken in this world.

                I would assume that they mainly do it because, like most people on earth, they live in capitalist hell and need money to survive. And just like most other professions, they sell their bodies, so what? Sometimes not even that, OF models or cam girls often just sell pictures or videos of their bodies, what makes that job any different than that of models or actors?

                If you think its fine, you are missing something inside.

                What would that be?

                You are just not capable of understanding why its wrong. Because that part is missing.

                Well, I know that the prudishness part in me is missing, and I’m glad it is.

                You’re not capable of understanding why it’s not wrong at all. Take your own advice, find that missing part inside of you, whatever the fuck that is.

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                  8 hours ago

                  Morals are not subjective. Being a good person is not subjective either. You are clearly not a good person from how you write in this post. But you dont care most likely. :).

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                  9 hours ago

                  Sometimes not even that, OF models or cam girls often just sell pictures or videos of their bodies, what makes that job any different than that of models or actors?

                  If I recall correctly Belle Delphine did a ton of money before showing anything explicit she was doing mostly what any model do.

              • TurboWafflz@lemmy.world
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                10 hours ago

                bro’s jealous of people actually being attractive instead of annoying jerks

                just let people be they aren’t hurting you or anyone else.

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    I mean I suppose it’s no different than subscribing to the patreon of a youtuber you like to get extra videos? I don’t do it but I feel like supporting a content creator you like is a reasonable thing to do even if it’s that kind of content

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    I think the people using it just got hooked through none porn display of certain people and the rarity of them having only fans made them pay for it. Because there is no free porn of their favorite TikToker or whatever. Maybe the artificial rarity or exclusivness plays a part aswell. Just speculation tho.

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      10 hours ago

      Yeah.

      People harp on Onlyfans, but how sexualized and “softcore teasing” Insta and even TikTok are kinda creeps me out. They’re literally entry points to OF.

      I have a parent who’s blissfully off of social media, and it was interesting to see their reaction to what they’re like now.

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    Mostly lonely dudes who think they’re getting personal interaction from women, but have no clue they’re really talking to a dude doing the marketing management for that girl. It’s pretty sad. They’d rather pay money to pretend that a girl actually likes them rather than fix themselves so a real woman would actually talk to them.