• flubo@feddit.de
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      1 year ago

      You seriously shouldnt. Of course it matters whether people feel physically attracted to someonee… But attractiveness is not the same as beauty. I noticed that a big push for being attractive is a high self confidence. I personally also get attracted when someone speaks really passionate about something.

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        1 year ago

        That’s a good point. Attractiveness is different than beauty, and I guess looking like a model won’t be worth much if you’re an asshole.

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      1 year ago

      I have a bunch of women as friends and many of them say the same: A guy can only be average looking to them but say something really smart or nice or funny, and all of a sudden everything about him is beautiful.

      Sure there are some people who really got dealt a bad hand when playing poker for their face but there’s definitely much more to attraction than just physical appearance.