Huh. Have you seen Vihart’s video on gender? She’s a whimsical popular math video creator who feels similar.

TL;DW: She doesn’t “feel” gender. She doesn’t identify as agender though, she just “doesn’t identify”. And I think she’s oblivious about pronouns as a result but historically, her feminine presentation makes “she/her” seem the most appropriate, and since she refuses to weigh in AFAIK, I’ll continue to use them for practical reasons (people expect such person to be referred to as “she”). I wonder if there’s a better noun/adjective than “agender” though. Maybe “gender-oblivious”. This has been a brief summary, please do still watch the video though