• riceandbeans161@discuss.tchncs.de
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    1 year ago

    get a sitter. If you can afford a holiday, budget for a sitter.

    Or don’t have holidays until the snot factories are old enough to behave if you can’t afford a sitter. You chose to have children.

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      1 year ago

      Yes, because it’s perfectly normal to leave your young kids with strangers for a couple weeks while you go on holiday, or visit family.

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      1 year ago

      Let’s see who will pay for your retirement and medical care eventually… (unless if you live in that US hellscape ofcourse)

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          Oh yeah, one hundred percent. The only reason I got kids was to make sure they can take care of my retirement.

          Just as I’m taking care of my parents. I have totally absolutely 100% not broken off all contact with them because of their shitty behaviour. No sir, absolutely not.

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        If you’re having kids with the express intent that they care for you when you’re old, you’re already doing it wrong.