• Buddahriffic@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Attraction can change as you learn more about a person. There’s plenty of people on tinder who looked hot in their pictures but their bio then went on to turn me off.

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          3 months ago

          So in other words, you are not defending the statement that the commenter was making, about never experiencing attraction?

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            3 months ago

            I don’t see such a statement in this comment chain. Closest thing is “exclusive sexual interest”, which isn’t as broad as “experiencing attraction” and also doesn’t imply a magical way of filtering out anyone he believes is in that group but isn’t.