so very patient. would wait longer if told to. but how long would it wait? at which point does the reward seem unreachable?

alt image (catbox, high quality)

the more i post here, the more i can’t show this profile to friends anymore. it’s like reeeeeally direct with some stuff. not this post tho, this one is as tame as the bunny in the image. first time drawing a bunny… maybe ever.

i guess specifically because i only make oc stuff, it’s just a lot more personal. no matter how much i say “this is Lilac saying that, not me!”, i am still the one putting those words in the speech bubbles. oh well.

are you polite? do you apologize when you sneeze? i don’t, because i sneeze so quietly that peeps don’t even notice it most of the time.

i wish you a wonderful day where you don’t have to wait long for your reward.

  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    9 hours ago

    Once I realized no amount of being patient and kind was going to make me “good enough” to get what I needed my life changed. It’s called a healing fantasy, it’s part of codependency. The fantasy is if you’re just X enough you will get Y but you’re already enough and getting Y isn’t up to you so if you’re not getting it it’s time to consider finding someone who will give you what you need just as you are