After nearly 10 years of waiting, it finally happened for me on Monday. Today (Thursday) I will get out of bed for the first time, which is going to be painful. Tomorrow my bandages come off. It’s all a bit unreal for me still. I kinda thought I’d never reach this milestone. The easy part of lying unconscious is done, now for the deliberate work of recovery.

  • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    15 hours ago

    my tired and only very recently awake ass thought you gave birth to a girl and i was like hey yea congrats

    and then i read the sub it was in

    took a full ten sec

    then i realised

    congrats girl!!

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    14 hours ago

    Fuck yeah! I had surgery about two years ago now so if you have questions or just want to talk about anything you’re welcome to reach out :3

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      i’m also curious about this as i might get the surgeri soon - what should i prepare for? how should i do the pelvic stretches and how much is the recovery time?

      i’m intending for a full vaginoplasty, ideally one that’s self-lubricating and would have a similar microbiome + have good vasculature (all of those would help in getting a uterus transplant), but yeah.

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        I got peritoneal pull-through which is self lubricating kinda. It’s not in response to anything and it isn’t lubey-lubey but it does keep me more or less self cleaning and I think helps with biome stuff. Recovery I was back on my feet pretty quickly, like attempting walking after only a day and going on slow paced mile walks in under a month. This post and the linked previous posts will tell you a lot about what I was going through: https://lemmy.zip/post/39222527

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      15 hours ago

      My parents are trying their best to be supportive, even if they don’t fully understand the complex thing that is gender identity. Heck, I barely do