Yes, thank you so much. I totally wanted and have time for a scavenger hunt + jigsaw puzzle. Clearly you understand enough of the issue to know that I need to handle it but can’t be bothered to spend 45 seconds to summarize the relevant bits.
Wrong community. I think that there’s an actually infuriating one somewhere.
See below
Reply: “yep, that’s a chain.”
honestly I feel the same about people just putting links or media into a post. I get it. Its me. I come here for communication. I want to know at the very least why you felt something was important enough to post. Why did they like it. Why I should like it. Does it have meaning to them. Is it just a laugh. etc. I kinda wish I could block all posts that did not have about as much body as you have up there.
Valid. I hate link only posts. Especially when the link is to a video with clear clickbait titles. I tend to just keep scrolling. I would love a setting to block posts that are only a link and no details.
This drives me crazy. At least give me a description for your YouTube link so I can decide if it interests me. “Check this out” isn’t good enough, give me a bloody reason.
im a bit of a hypocrite though as I will respond to comments with links to songs or something relevant to convo with no statement. But that is a commment so I feel the bar is lower and usually kinda a joke. like one of the most often ones I do is stan ridgeways I want to be a boss which works with both general work things and things about rich trump holes.
I know don’t like it, but this is a perfect use case for AI.
No, no it is not.
It is a case for smarter client software, if anything. Deterministic smarter client software that just shows you the context instead of making it up.
I have a filter that checks for “Fwd:” and immediately trashes it. If you cant be bothered to format even the subject line, you’re a lost cause. Cut down significantly on useless shit from my parents especially.
I have like 150 other filters that sort messages into folders, trash others, and immediately permanently delete others. My inbox now has 1-5 messages in the morning, and usually 1 or 2 throughout the day, vs the like 25-50 daily. Having unique email addresses for each recipient is great too, since if you unsubscibe from some garbage and it doesn’t actually unsubscibe (fuck you, AT&T Business), you can just blackhole it and it’s gone.
I prefer email to texting or calling, since there’s less expectation of a rapid response, but I got tired of getting so much garbage all the time - and I was already actively trying to keep my inbox clean 15+ years ago.
I can’t tell if people who do that kind of thing are lazy and malicious, actually stupid, or stressed beyond their capacity to be decent.
I do think a lot of people are actually only semi literate, and asking them to write is legitimately difficult and embarrassing for them.
That’s when you reply and fixate on completely the wrong part of the thread. Teach them for not setting the right context.
Reply back: several questions, see my reply in red and ask one question
Bonus “Mildly infuriating”:
Ask 4 bullet-point questions in an email, they only answer one of them and ignore the rest.
And it’s always your third bulletpoint so you know they know there were multiple questions and they just ignored the rest!
Either the 3rd one or the least important one. Whichever causes me the most inconvenience.
