As the healer you have the most control. You are the arbiter of life and death.
I just glue myself to the tank and let them set the pace. Anyone else can kick rocks. Except black mages standing in their leyline and taking mechanics to the face to maximize damage. I respect the hell out of that.
Maybe they think of it as “I can’t control my IRL situation but I can control this”.
Me, I just don’t trust other people to do it right.
But I never feel in control when I play healer. I’m always at the whims of other players and can only help them succeed, not make them.
As the healer you have the most control. You are the arbiter of life and death.
I just glue myself to the tank and let them set the pace. Anyone else can kick rocks. Except black mages standing in their leyline and taking mechanics to the face to maximize damage. I respect the hell out of that.