• lotharmatthaeus@lemmy.zip
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    9 hours ago

    Am I trans just because I sometimes would like to know how it would be to have a vulva? Or because I sometimes jerk off to women with dicks?

    Am I gay because I sometimes fantasise about someone cuming inside my butt?

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      3 hours ago

      like to know how it would be to have a vulva

      I see, you are asking the right questions.

      Am I gay because I sometimes fantasise about someone cuming inside my butt?

      have you imagined who’d do that?

    • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      9 hours ago

      I’m not trans and I still wonder what it would be like to have a penis. My male partner is straight and insanely attracted to trans women.

      Depends, do you fantasize about a guy cumming inside your butt or a woman? Lol

      It’s a whole spectrum out there. Call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable.

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          7 hours ago

          Mmm maybe! The straight people I know well are pretty rigid in their sexuality though so maybe not quite everyone would take that offer?

          I’m really bisexual and a domme/sub switch, so my feelings of wondering what having a penis would be like are tied to that somewhat for me

          It would be such fun to be able to just…try out whichever genitals we want, whenever we want!