Sometimes it feels like i lucked out to be fluid, defaulting to non binary whenever gender becomes functionally non relevant (which is almost always)
It means i simply pass as gender normative, i also desired biological offspring which for me requires a long term cis relationship.
In most situations i feel like
An opposite of the in the corner meme
“they don’t know i don’t have a gender right now” but i feel real good about being some cool undercover enlightened gender weirdo, as opposed to a very obvious autistic nerd kind of weirdo. And actual gender naive cis people better watch out cause i will argue in defence of my queer siblings whenever the topic requires it.
Honestly, I think the whole concept of “gender” is dumb. It’s a symptom of people desperately trying to quantify other people based on a super vague set of ever shifting definitions across an ever shifting range.
We would have been much better off if we continued the trend of “what they call you doesn’t matter” instead of the current trend “it’s important you tell them exactly what to call you”.
Sometimes it feels like i lucked out to be fluid, defaulting to non binary whenever gender becomes functionally non relevant (which is almost always)
It means i simply pass as gender normative, i also desired biological offspring which for me requires a long term cis relationship.
In most situations i feel like An opposite of the in the corner meme “they don’t know i don’t have a gender right now” but i feel real good about being some cool undercover enlightened gender weirdo, as opposed to a very obvious autistic nerd kind of weirdo. And actual gender naive cis people better watch out cause i will argue in defence of my queer siblings whenever the topic requires it.
Honestly, I think the whole concept of “gender” is dumb. It’s a symptom of people desperately trying to quantify other people based on a super vague set of ever shifting definitions across an ever shifting range.
We would have been much better off if we continued the trend of “what they call you doesn’t matter” instead of the current trend “it’s important you tell them exactly what to call you”.